The Crunch family is finally back from our August 2009 American odyssey, and in the throes of jetlag. After many adventures and WAAAAYYYY too much together time as a family, the Crunch girls are delighted to be back at school. (There are no words to describe how delighted their mother is; it’s times like these where I look at my homeschooling friends and wonder how they manage it.)
It was great to see America again. Listening to a drash by my rav on Shabbat morning in Newton, sitting again with the same women I sat with for eight and a half years, and having the Cap’n’s birthday meal with the Usual Suspects (with whom we celebrated birthdays every year before making aliyah), topped off with a J.P. Lick’s ice cream cake for dessert, was heaven. This visit we focused less on sightseeing and more on reconnecting with old friends, some of whom we actually met in Israel over a decade ago, meeting friends’ new babies, and showing our kids a few once-familiar sights again. (The Boston Children’s Museum is completely different from what it was before.)
We saw our families too, drinking in the green, mountainous landscape of southern Vermont (and being feasted upon by mosquitoes, black flies, and no-see-’ems) with my parents. Beans learned to ride a bicycle, Bill began clapping and waving, and the Crunch children glued themselves to their cousins for a fortnight. We shopped at outlets and gorged ourselves on fresh corn and produce from a local farm. We stocked up on maple cream (which we smear on challah for special occasions). We swam in a nearby lake and had a bonfire at my sister’s house (built in 1807, with the old brick kitchen oven intact except for the bricks removed to make room for a small modern range, original stenciling on the walls, and my old dining room table and chairs—Martha Stewart, eat your pretentious little heart out). The kids went blueberrying with my parents and we had blueberry pancakes one morning. My mother made homemade ice cream. The Cap’n and I finally saw “Napoleon Dynamite,” buying us a little cultural capital with my niece and nephews. (I learned from this movie that “chicks like guys with skills: numchuk skills, bow-hunting skills, computer hacking skills.”) We saw it rain…more than once. It was beautiful.
We topped off the visit with a trip to Niagara Falls with the Crunches, Sr. Bill wasn’t impressed with the Maid of the Mist; he’d rather have been sitting on a bench nursing. But it was amazing being on a boat surrounded on three sides by walls of roaring, falling water. And the next day we took them to an amusement park where they were amused by all the rides, and I was amused watching them be amused.
It wasn’t fun being the designated packer for a family of six, especially when we checked four bags leaving Israel and eleven coming back (and the shopping on this trip was much more restrained than on our last visit to the U.S.). But we had a wonderful time, the girls are all set for clothes for the next year (and then some), I’m set for DVDs (a few dozen, which should do me very well for the next few months), we’ve got some great pictures and videos, and we’re back in our own beds.
The one thing that has eluded me for a month has been sleep. Jetlag getting to the U.S., kids up at dawn stampeding across wooden floors, few opportunities to nap, and now jetlag again. But, as the Cap’n likes to say, “sleep makes me irritable.”
It’s good to be back.
Welcome back, welcome back! :) You were missed!
I laughed at your homeschooling comment… because Eli took the kids to work with him this afternoon, and I’m home alone for the first time in months — and I’m all lonely and sad about that! LOL
I said to the kids, “I’m going to be all lonely, sniff, sniff…”
And Menachem said, “We’re home with you all the time, we have to spend time with Aba today.”
Yes, yes. Be that way. ;-)
For our part, we’re sorry we missed you! The G’s told us you were coming and we’d intended to see you, but ended up visiting relatives in NY that week. Glad your travels were safe and happy!
It was great to see you when you visited, however briefly. You may notice that I posted the picture the Cap’n took of our family…
Welcome back! It sounds like you had fun, even if not sleep. :P
In case you’re curious, I might briefly tell you that I’ve moved to Yeshivat Petah Tiqwa, with Rabbi Yuval Cherlow, famous for such heretical Reformist beliefs as men and women being of equal value. Every third Shabbat of mine the yeshiva has no food, and now with summer ending, Shabbat ends soon enough for me to travel for Shabbat and still get to bed on time on motzei shabbat, and so I’ll be sending out feelers. ;)
(I just had a cool experience on the bus between Petah Tiqwa and Jerusalem. I sat next to an elderly Yemenite fellow, and he told me all about how his mother’s aunt or some such had made the arduous journey to Israel, involving donkeys and illness and all that jazz. After I told him my own family story, we started discussing the laws of conversion, especially as regards the present situation in Israel. About 100,000 times I cited Rabbis Benzion Uziel and Haim David Halevi, and their lenient shita (I think I emphasized about 100,000 times how important it is for rabbis today to be meikil in general), and he said he’d talk to his brother, a rosh yeshiva in Benei Braq.)
I missed you too. I am glad you had such a great time in the US.
Thanks, all.
Rachel: I relish my alone time, and have had withdrawals lately from my non-house-and-family-related activities. I’d give anything to knit for an hour. Have you forgotten the joys of having time to yourself? Hope you’re not that far gone! (Besides, alone time will all be a distant memory for you, please God, in a few short months.)
lucretia: Sorry we missed you too. I like keeping up with your adventures on your blog, though. Perhaps we’ll see you next time.
Michael B: We loved seeing you again and meeting your little lovelies. I’ll have to check out that photo.
Michael M.: Hope your new yeshiva doesn’t get shut down for passing along such silly notions. Seriously, though, I hope it’s a better match for you. As for Shabbatot, you know where the Crunch family lives, and I usually keep the guest bed made up. Call us anytime.
Ilana-Davita: I missed posting, but kept up with yours while I was gone. (How’s that for devotion?)
Oh, I think I’m totally ruined… ;)
Seriously, though, I actually get at least two hours of alone time every day, as I lock my door in the afternoon, and the kids are not allowed to knock or bother me, and they very rarely do. Which is cool…
I admit that had I not been sick this week, I probably would had been excited to have the house to myself. But since all I could do was stay in bed all day, feeling miserable, with no one to bring me tea… I didn’t want to be home all alone, sniff…
As you said, tho, there will be no locking doors for two hours when the twins come…. that will take some adjusting! Haven’t had babies around here for a looooong time.
Shimshonit: Glad to know you are that devoted!
Sounds exhausting, yet idyllic too…. the two of us went away with 2 pieces of baggage and two pieces of hand-baggage – two weeks later our hand baggage had seemingly multiplied 2 times over. How can it be?!!
rachel: Someone should come up a formula to calculate how much stuff someone will come back with on any given trip. Variables would probably include how much baggage one left with, length of time spent away, how much money one had to spend, how interesting the place was that one visited, how much time one had to shop, etc. The piece of advice that sticks in my head from my old back-packing days was, “Halve the clothes and double the money.” That seems to take into account the tendency to bring back more than one left with.
I came to Israel with two suitcases of clothing and one carry-on bag. I now have three suitcases of clothing plus two suitcases of books, plus about four or five boxes of books. Thank G-d, I couldn’t make yerida if I wanted!